Ok, I've read it all and think both sides make some valid points.
I think that if a player wants 5-tile trains instead of 7 or 20 tile trains, that's ofcourse the player's choice, I can even see why you would do that when money is ok and mainline capacity is high enough and without slowdowns.
Now, I do believe that this station was extremely wide and I seriously doubt that you'd be needing all platforms. So there was a double mainline, that splits into two forced depots. That's all pretty much standard. I just don't see them needing 3 or even 4 platforms per entrance. Unless you have about 10-15 trains more than you need on that line, which would just be trying to cover up the fact that you're spreading.
So I, personally as admin, don't really care if you want your station to be wider than it's longer, and I could see you wanting like a 5 long and 8 wide station, but I do believe that in this case, it was just too wide and I feel like you did base the width of the station mostly on it covering both mines, instead of how you wanted your station to function. But hey, I could be wrong, I know it's also about fun railing, and pretty lines with a lot of players and I understand that.
What I don't get is why you didn't just get that double mainline, split it into 4 forced depots and that into 8 platforms, and then just put a transferstation next to it and connect a few more mines from a little further. Because there's just no way that the station you built is ever going to be at capacity with only 2 mines, even if they produce about 1k each monthly.
On a final note I must say, that I don't like your attitude at some points. Admins here aren't 'towing the BTPro line', we're not here to annoy players, or to get them because it's fun, or whatever you, and others before you, might think of us. We're here, in our spare time, trying our best to be as fair as possible. Players are not always making it easy for us, there's always players going into grey areas, trying to bend the rules, trying to stretch the rules. And those same players almost without exception, are also the ones going into lengthy discussions. And please, don't take this personally, because this isn't adressed at you personally Commodore, but I really, really strongly dislike it when admins of this community get falsely accused of stuff. Yes you can discuss our interpretations of the rules with us (preferably on the forum, not ingame) and yes we value input. But this doesn't mean that if this input doesn't get implemented, that we're towing the BTPro line, or are out there to make life miserable on the players.